[Pramāṇa](https://indike.org/pramana/) › [Indian literature](https://indike.org/pramana/in) › [Buddhist Literature](https://indike.org/pramana/in.bauddha) › [Taishō Tripiṭaka (Chinese Buddhist canon)](https://indike.org/pramana/in.bauddha.taisho) › [勸發菩提心集](https://indike.org/pramana/in.bauddha.taisho.1862) › 2.102 # 勸發菩提心集 2.102 勸發菩提心集 2.102 - **Language:** Classical Chinese ### [2.102](https://indike.org/pramana/in.bauddha.taisho.1862.2.102) 佛告玉耶：「婦事公姑夫婿，有五善三惡。何為五善？一者、為婦當晚臥早起，櫛梳髮綵整頓衣服，洗拭面目勿有垢穢，執於事作先啟所尊，心常恭順。設有甘美不得先食。二者、夫婿呵罵不得嗔恨。三者、一心守夫婿，不得念邪婬。四者、常願夫婿長壽。五者、夫婿出行，婦當整頓家中，常念夫善不念夫惡。是為五善。何等三惡？一者、不以婦禮承事公姑夫婿，但欲美食先取噉之，未瞑早臥日出不起。夫若呵教嗔目視夫，應拒獨罵。二者、不一心向夫婿，但念他男子。三者、欲令夫死早得更嫁，是為三惡。」 > The Buddha told Yuye: 'In a wife serving her parents-in-law and husband, there are five goods and three evils. What are the five goods? First, as a wife, she should sleep late and rise early, comb her hair, arrange her clothing, wash her face clean of dirt, and when attending to tasks first inform her elders, her mind constantly respectful and compliant. If there are delicacies, she must not eat them first. Second, when her husband scolds her, she must not harbour resentment. Third, she must single-mindedly guard \[devotion to\] her husband and must not think of perverse lust. Fourth, she must constantly wish that her husband enjoys long life. Fifth, when her husband goes abroad, the wife should tidy the home, constantly keeping in mind her husband's goodness and not thinking of his faults. These are the five goods. What are the three evils? First, failing to serve her parents-in-law and husband with the etiquette of a wife, desiring only fine food to seize and eat first, going to bed early before dark, and not rising after the sun is up; if her husband scolds or instructs her, glaring at him, talking back, and cursing to herself. Second, not directing her mind single-mindedly toward her husband, but thinking of other men. Third, wishing for her husband to die so that she may soon remarry. These are the three evils.' > — English (machine translation) (machine translation) - [Previous: 2.101](https://indike.org/pramana/in.bauddha.taisho.1862.2.101) - [Next: 2.103](https://indike.org/pramana/in.bauddha.taisho.1862.2.103) - [Up: 2](https://indike.org/pramana/in.bauddha.taisho.1862.2) ## Translations (1) - [English (machine translation)](https://indike.org/pramana/in.bauddha.taisho.1862~en-mt.2.102) — English, machine translation ## Linked texts (1) - [玉耶經](https://indike.org/pramana/in.bauddha.sanskrit.agama.ekottara.sujatasutra-t143*zh-zhu-tanwulan.1.7) — Classical Chinese --- Source: [https://indike.org/pramana/in.bauddha.taisho.1862.2.102](https://indike.org/pramana/in.bauddha.taisho.1862.2.102) · Pramāṇa