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Yet your state is quite unique. // The glory of austerity is present here in you; brahminic splendour is firmly established in you; / the supreme glory of merit is in you, generosity is in you, and \[greatness of\] mind is in you. // This auspicious, faithful wife Lopāmudrā is your partner in religious duties, / equal to the shadow of your body, whose tale brings merit. // Among devoted wives—such as Arundhatī, Sāvitrī, and Anasūyā, / Śāṇḍilyā, Satī, Lakṣmī, Śatarūpā, // Menā, Sunīti, Saṃjñā, and also Svāhā— / just as she is celebrated as the best, none other is, undoubtedly. // When you have eaten, O sage, she eats; when you stand, she stands; / she sleeps after you fall asleep, and wakes before \[you\]. // She never shows herself to you unadorned; / when you have gone abroad for some task, she is entirely devoid of adornments. // She would not utter your name, for the increase of your lifespan; / nor does she ever utter the name of another man. // Even when reviled, she does not revile in return; even when struck, she remains pleased; / and she says: ‘Master, consider that done which you say: “Do this.”’ // When called, she leaves her household duties and goes swiftly, \[saying,\] / ‘For what purpose was I called, Lord? Grant your gracious favour.’ // She does not linger long in the doorway, nor does she frequent the doorway; / without having been instructed by you, she gives nothing to anyone. // Unasked, she procures on her own all the articles for worship: ### [4.4.16.2](https://indike.org/pramana/in.purana.skanda~en-mt.4.4.16.2) the prescribed water, sacrificial grass, leaves, flowers, unbroken grains, and the like. // Awaiting the right occasion, whatever is suited to each time, / all that she presents without agitation, like one overjoyed. // She partakes of her husband's leftovers, the favoured food, fruits, and the like; / saying, ‘It is a great grace,’ she receives whatever is handed over. // And she would not eat without having distributed \[shares\] to the gods, ancestors, and guests, / to the household servants, to cows, and to the mendicants. // Restrained with utensils, capable, cheerful, averse to wasteful expense, / she would not observe fasting, vows, and the like unless permitted by you. // From afar she would avoid witnessing gatherings and festivities; / she would not go on pilgrimages to sacred fords, to witness marriages, or the like. // When her husband is sleeping comfortably, sitting comfortably, or amusing himself at will, / she would never awaken him, even for intimate matters. // While in her monthly course, for three nights she should not show her face at all, / nor let her voice be heard, until she is purified by bathing. // Well bathed, she gazes upon her husband's face and never upon another's; / or, meditating on her husband in her mind, she may look at the sun. // Turmeric, vermilion, red lead, kohl, / bodice, betel, auspicious ornaments, / arranging the hair in a braid, ornaments for hands and ears, and the like— / desiring longevity for her husband, a devoted wife should not discard these. // Neither with a washerwoman, nor with a logician, nor with an ascetic woman, / nor ever with an unfortunate woman does a virtuous wife make friendship. // She never converses with a woman who hates her husband; / she should never be alone, nor does she ever bathe naked. // Neither upon a mortar, nor a pestle, nor a broom, nor a grinding stone, / nor by an oil mill, nor upon the threshold should a virtuous wife ever sit. // Except at the time of intercourse, she should never display bold audacity; / wherever her husband takes delight, therein she is always loving. // This alone is the vow of women; this alone is their supreme virtue.” ### [4.4.16.3](https://indike.org/pramana/in.purana.skanda~en-mt.4.4.16.3) This alone is the worship of the gods: she should not transgress her husband's word. / Whether he is impotent, in misery, diseased, or even old, prosperous or destitute, she should never transgress her husband alone. / Always rejoicing when he is pleased, downcast when her beloved is downcast, she, the virtuous woman, should be of one uniform nature both in prosperity and in adversity. / Even upon the exhaustion of clarified butter, salt, oil, and the like, a devoted wife should not say to her husband, 'There is none,' nor should she burden him with hardships. / A woman desirous of bathing in sacred waters should drink the water that washed her husband's feet; far beyond even Śaṃkara or Viṣṇu, her husband alone is superior for a woman. / She who undertakes vows, fasts, and observances by transgressing her husband steals the life span of her husband, and when dead, goes to hell. / The woman who, prone to anger, retorts back when spoken to, is born as a bitch in a village or a female jackal in a deserted forest. / For of women this one supreme observance is declared: having worshipped the feet of her husband, she should eat with firm resolve. / She should not sit upon an elevated seat, nor should she frequent the houses of strangers; words that cause shame are never to be spoken \[by her\]. Slander must not be uttered; dispute she should shun from afar. / In the presence of elders she should never speak loudly or laugh. The foolish woman who, abandoning her husband, wanders about in secret, / is born as a cruel female owl living in a hollow of a tree. If, when struck, she desires to strike back, she becomes a tigress or a female cat; / and she who casts sidelong glances at another man becomes squint-eyed. She who, abandoning her husband, eats sweet foods alone, / becomes an inhabitant of a village, a bat feeding on canine feces. She who, snorting 'humph,' speaks an unpleasant word, indeed becomes dumb; / she who is constantly envious of a co-wife becomes wretched time and time again. She who, disregarding the sight of her husband, looks at someone else, / becomes one-eyed, averted of face, and deformed. ### [4.4.16.4](https://indike.org/pramana/in.purana.skanda~en-mt.4.4.16.4) Seeing him arriving from outside, she should swiftly attend him with water and food, / with betel, fans, foot-massages, and the like; likewise, with pleasing words and supreme removers of weariness, / she who gratifies her beloved with joy has gratified the three worlds. A father gives in limited measure, a brother gives in limited measure, a son gives in limited measure; / but a husband is the giver of the boundless—she should always worship him. The husband is a deity, the husband is a teacher, the husband is dharma, sacred fords, and observances; / therefore, abandoning everything, she should venerate her husband alone. Just as a body bereft of life goes to impurity in an instant, / so a woman bereft of a husband, even though well-bathed, is ever impure. Of all inauspicious things, a widow is bereft of auspiciousness; / from the sight of a widow, success is never attained anywhere at any time. Leaving aside one's mother alone, who is devoid of all auspiciousness, / a wise man should shun even her blessing as though it were a venomous snake. At the time of a maiden's wedding, the twice-born should recite this: / 'Be the companion of your husband whether he is alive or departed.' A husband must always be followed by a woman like a shadow by a body, / as the moon by moonlight, as a cloud by lightning. She who gladly follows her husband from the house to the cemetery / undoubtedly attains the fruit of an aśvamedha at every step. Just as a snake-catcher forcefully pulls out a snake from a hole, / so a virtuous wife, snatching her husband from the messengers, leads him to heaven. The messengers of Yama flee far away seeing a virtuous wife, / releasing her husband even if he has committed wicked deeds. 'We messengers are not so afraid of fire, nor are we so afraid of lightning, / as when seeing a devoted wife swooping down.' The sun burns intensely, and even fire is scorched; / all splendors tremble upon seeing the majesty of devotion to a husband. For as many tens of millions of years as there are hairs \[on his body\], ### [4.4.16.5](https://indike.org/pramana/in.purana.skanda~en-mt.4.4.16.5) rejoicing with her husband, the devoted wife enjoys heavenly bliss. Blessed is that mother in the world, blessed again is that father, / and blessed is that glorious husband in whose house there is a devoted wife. Three lineages of the father, three of the mother, and three of the husband— / by the merit of a devoted wife, they enjoy the pleasures of heaven. Misbehaved women, by the destruction of good conduct, drag down the three lineages— / of father, mother, and husband—and become sorrowful here and in the hereafter. Wherever the foot of a devoted wife touches the earth, / there the earth considers: 'Here, the purifying woman leaves no burden \[upon me\].' Even the sun, fearing, touches the devoted wife; / the moon and the wind also \[touch her\] only for their own purification, not otherwise. The waters ever desire the touch of a devoted wife: / 'Today our dullness is destroyed; today we have become the purifiers of others.' Are there not women in every house, proud of their form and charm? / But a devoted wife is obtained only through devotion to the Lord of the Universe. A wife is the root of the householder; a wife is the root of happiness; / a wife yields the fruits of dharma; a wife is for the increase of offspring. The next world and this world—both are won by a wife; / a wifeless man is not fit for the rites of gods, ancestors, guests, and sacrifices. He indeed should be known as a householder in whose house is a devoted wife; / another woman devours him at every step like an ogress or old age. Just as the body becomes purified by immersion in the Gaṅgā, / so one becomes purified by the auspicious sight of a devoted wife. If by fate she somehow does not follow her husband \[in death\], / even then her good conduct must be preserved; by the breach of good conduct she falls low. Through her fault, her husband also falls from heaven, not otherwise; / \[and likewise\] her father, mother, and group of brothers. And that woman who, upon her husband's death, observes widowhood with restraint, / having attained her husband once again, enjoys the delights of heaven. ### [4.4.16.6](https://indike.org/pramana/in.purana.skanda~en-mt.4.4.16.6) The braid of a widow's hair leads to the binding of her husband; / therefore, a widow should always shave her head. // 74 She should always take only one meal \[a day\], never a second; / or she should observe a fast of three nights, five nights, or a fortnight, // 75 or she should undertake a fast for a month, or perform the cāndrāyaṇa; / or she should perform the severe kṛcchra, or the taptakṛcchra. // 76 With barley foods, with a diet of fruits, with a diet of vegetables, or with diets restricted to milk, / she should sustain life until her life-breath departs of its own accord. // 77 A woman who sleeps on a bedstead, being a widow, brings about her husband's downfall; / therefore, she should sleep on the bare ground with the desire for her husband's welfare. // 78 Nor should anointing the body be done at any time by a widowed woman; / further, application of fragrant substances should never be done by her. // 79 Each day she must offer water libations to her husband with kuśa grass, sesame, and water, / and likewise to his father and his grandfather, reciting their name and gotra. // 80 Moreover, the worship of Viṣṇu should be performed with the contemplation that he is her husband, and not otherwise; / she should constantly meditate on her husband alone as Hari bearing the form of Viṣṇu. // 81 Whatever is most cherished in the world and whatever was desired by her husband, / that she should bestow upon a virtuous man, desiring to please her husband. // 82 In the months of Vaiśākha, Kārttika, and Māgha, she should observe special vows: / ritual ablution, giving of gifts, pilgrimage to sacred fords, and repeated recitation of Viṣṇu's name. // 83 Water pitchers in Vaiśākha, lamps of clarified butter in Kārttika, / and offerings of grain and sesame in Māgha are celebrated as leading to heaven. // 84 A water shed should be set up in Vaiśākha, and a dripping water-pot offered to the god; / shoes, a fan, an umbrella, fine garments, sandalwood paste, // 85 betel with camphor, as well as the gift of flowers, / many water-vessels, and houses decorated with flowers, // 86 various drinks, and fruits such as grapes and plantains / should be given to the foremost of brahmins, saying, “May my husband be pleased.” // 87 In the month of Ūrja, she should eat barley food, or only one meal a day. ### [4.4.16.7](https://indike.org/pramana/in.purana.skanda~en-mt.4.4.16.7) She should avoid eggplant, sūraṇa yam, and velvet bean. // 88 In Kārttika she should avoid oil, in Kārttika she should avoid honey, / in Kārttika she should avoid bell-metal, and in Kārttika she should avoid fermented food. // 89 During a vow of silence in Kārttika, she should present a beautiful bell; / if she has vowed to eat from leaves, she presents a bell-metal vessel filled with clarified butter. // 90 Under the vow of sleeping on the ground, a smooth bed with a mattress should be given; / upon abstaining from fruits, fruit should be given; upon abstaining from flavors, that flavor; // 91 upon abstaining from grain, that grain—or else fine rice is prescribed; / she should diligently give milk-cows adorned with ornaments and gold. // 92 All gifts on one side, and the gift of a lamp on the other: / \[all gifts\] do not equal a sixteenth part of the gift of a lamp in Kārttika. // 93 When the sun has slightly risen, she should perform the Māgha ritual ablution; / and one who performs the Māgha ritual ablution should undertake religious observances according to her ability. // 94 She should feed brahmins, ascetics, and practitioners of austerities with cooked foods: / with laḍḍukas, pheṇikās, vaṭakas, iṇḍarikās, and the like, // 95 cooked in clarified butter, seasoned with pepper, perfumed with pure camphor, / filled inside with sugar, pleasing to the eyes, and fragrant. // 96 She should also give loads of dry firewood to dispel the cold, / a bodice stuffed with cotton, a soft mattress, and a fine sacred thread, // 97 garments dyed with madder, and cotton cloths, / and many betel leaves with nutmeg and cloves, // 98 variegated blankets, rooms free of drafts, / soft footwear, and fragrant unguents, // 99 preceded by great ritual ablutions, with worship using clarified butter and blankets, / with incenses such as black agallochum burnt in the inner sanctum, // 100 with lamps of thick wicks, and likewise with diverse offerings of food; / and she should say, “May the Lord, who is the true form of my husband, be pleased.” // 1 With such various vows and observances, a widow / should thus spend the months of Vaiśākha, Kārttika, and Māgha. // 2 ### [4.4.16.8](https://indike.org/pramana/in.purana.skanda~en-mt.4.4.16.8) She must not mount an ox even if her life-breath has reached her throat; / she should not wear a bodice, nor put on any dyed garment. // 3 Devoted to her husband, she should do nothing without asking her sons. / Ever intent on such conduct, even a widow is considered auspicious. // 4 Thus endowed with righteousness, even a widow is a devoted wife; / she attains the worlds of her husband and will never partake of sorrow. // 5 There is no difference between the Gaṅgā and that woman for whom her husband is her deity; / she is directly equal to Umā and Śiva. Therefore, a wise man should revere her. // 6 Bṛhaspati said: / The fruit of bathing in the Gaṅgā is indeed this: that darśana of you has taken place, / O Lopāmudrā, O great mother, whose gaze is fixed upon the lotus feet of your husband! // 7 Having thus praised the illustrious princess, the devoted wife, / and having bowed down, the Guru, skilled in all matters, addressed the sage: // 8 “You are the Praṇava; she is the Śruti. She is forbearance; you yourself are tapas. / She is virtuous action; you indeed are its fruit. Blessed are you, O great sage! // 9 This is the splendor of wifely devotion; you are the supreme brāhmanical splendor. / Moreover, there is this splendor of your tapas: what could ever be too difficult for you? // 110 Nothing is unknown to you, yet I speak nevertheless; / listen here, O sage, to the reason for which the gods have arrived. // 11 Here is the glorious hundred-sacrificer \[Indra\], the slayer of Vṛtra, armed with the thunderbolt, / at whose gate the eight supernatural powers await the favor of his glance; // 12 on the outskirts of whose city herds of wish-fulfilling cows graze; / whose citizens sleep constantly beneath the shades of the wish-fulfilling trees; // 13 and on whose streets these wish-fulfilling gems lie like pebbles. / Here is Agni, the origin of the universe, and here is Dharmarāja; // 14 and these are Nirṛti, Varuṇa, Vāyu, Kubera, the Rudras, and the rest— / lords who are worshipped by rites for the attainment of all desires. // 15 These are those who entreat; but it is you who must be petitioned for the sake of the universe. / That which can be accomplished by the mere effort of speech will bring welfare to the entire world.” // 16 ### [4.4.16\_1](https://indike.org/pramana/in.purana.skanda~en-mt.4.4.16_1) "A certain mountain named Vindhya has blocked the path of the sun. / It has grown out of rivalry with Meru; please check its growth! / Those who are hard by nature, those who obstruct the path, / and those who grow out of rivalry—their heightened growth brings misfortune." / Hearing these words of the preceptor, without deliberating, the great sage / collected himself for a moment and replied, "So be it." / "I shall accomplish your purpose," \[said Agastya,\] sending away the gods. / Then, falling into deep thought once more, Agastya turned his mind to meditation. / Vedavyāsa said: / Hearing this chapter on the devoted wife, a woman or a man, / casting off the slough of sin, shall go to the world of Indra. / Thus ends the fourth chapter, named 'The Narrative of the Devoted Wife,' in the first half of the Kāśīkhaṇḍa in the glorious Skandapurāṇa of eighty-one thousand verses. ## Linked texts (1) - [Skandapurāṇa](https://indike.org/pramana/in.purana.skanda.4.4.16.1) — Vyāsa, Sanskrit --- Source: [https://indike.org/pramana/in.purana.skanda~en-mt.4.4](https://indike.org/pramana/in.purana.skanda~en-mt.4.4) · Pramāṇa