Rasarnavasudhakara 1.175

1.175

yathā-
na pratyudgamanaṃ karoti raśanā-vyāsañjanādi-cchalān
nādatte nava-mañjarīm ali-bhaya-vyājena dattām api |
datte darpaṇam ādareṇa na giraṃ rūkṣākṣaraṃ māninī
cāturyād vidadhāti mānam athavā vyaktīkaroti priyā ||

For example:
“She does not advance to meet him on the pretext of fastening her girdle;
she does not accept a fresh bud, even though offered, on the pretext of fear of bees;
she hands him a mirror respectfully; she does not utter harsh words;
does the piqued woman show pique through cleverness, or does the beloved reveal it?”