Rasarnavasudhakara 1.265

1.265

166
prathamaṃ yauvanaṃ tatra vartamānā mṛgekṣaṇā |
apekṣate mṛdu-sparśaṃ sahate noddhatāṃ ratim ||

|| 166
such is the first youth. A fawn-eyed maiden living in it
desires a gentle touch and does not endure violent love-making;