大比丘三千威儀 1.80

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There are further five matters: first, one must not instruct someone, 'Buy such-and-such, I want to eat it'; second, one must not take fruits and melons and give them to a śrāmaṇera, saying, 'Hand these back to me, I want to eat them'; third, one must not banter or lie on another person's bed; fourth, one must not spit on another person's clean ground; fifth, when someone scolds one according to the Dharma, one must not leave in anger. These constitute showing respect.