勸發菩提心集 3.117

3.117

清淨忍者，略有十種：謂諸菩薩遇他所作不饒益事損惱違越，終不返報，亦不意憤，亦無怨嫌，意樂相續恒常現前，欲作饒益，先後無異，非一益已捨而不益，於有怨者自往悔謝，終不令他生疲厭已，然後受謝，恐其疾厭纔謝便受等。

Ninth, pure forbearance: briefly, there are ten kinds. That is, when bodhisattvas encounter harmful actions, injury, affliction, and transgression by others, they never retaliate, nor do they harbor mental resentment, nor do they hold grudges or hostility. Their benevolent intention continues and is constantly present, desiring to bring benefit, being the same from beginning to end, not abandoning someone without benefiting them just because they have benefited them once; toward those who bear enmity they go themselves to apologize and ask forgiveness, never waiting until the other person feels weary and disaffected before accepting their apology, but out of fear that the other may quickly become averse, they accept it as soon as the apology is offered, and so forth.