Vaishnava Dharmashastra 99.20

99.20

satye sthite bhūtahite niviṣṭe kṣamānvite krodhavivarjite ca
svakāryadakṣe parakāryadakṣe kalyāṇacitte ca sadā vinīte //

'(I reside) in one habitually veracious, in one friendly towards all creatures, in a married householder, in one forbearing, in one free from wrath, in one skilled in his own business, and in one skilled in other men's business, in one who never thinks of any but propitious things, and in one constantly humble.
.21. '(I reside) in women who wear proper ornaments always, who are devoted to their husbands, whose speeches are kind, who keep up saving habits, who have sons, who keep their household utensils in good order, and who are fond of offering domestic oblations.