Kamasutra 6.4.31

6.4.31

tasya pīṭhamardādayo mātur dauḥśīlyena nāyikāyāḥ saty apy anurāgevivaśāyāḥ pūrvaṃ niṣkāsanaṃ varṇayeyuḥ/

When a courtezan is resolved to take up again with a former lover, her Pithamarda and other servants should tell him that his former expulsion from the woman's house was caused by the wickedness of her mother; that the woman loved him just as much as ever at that time, but could not help the occurrence on account of her deference to her mother's will; that she hated the union of her present lover, and disliked him excessively. In addition to this, they should create confidence in his mind by speaking to him of her former love for him, and should allude to the mark of that love that she has ever remembered. This mark of her love should be connected with some kind of pleasure that may have been practiced by him, such as his way of kissing her, or manner of having connection with her.