Bhagavatapurana 4.8.34

4.8.34

guṇādhikān mudaṃ lipsed anukrośaṃ guṇādhamāt /
maitrīṃ samānād anvicchen na tāpair abhibhūyate //

34. A man ought to be pleased with one who is his superior by qualities and learn to have pity for one who is his

inferior, and seek friendship with one who is his equal; (and that man) is not overwhelmed (distressed) with (afflictions).