Rasarnavasudhakara 2.254.p2

2.254.p2

vākṛtaṃ ca tenaiva | atra tarjanārthamokṣaṇārtha-vāraṇārthāṇāṃ mandaṃ maṇdaṃ prayogān mānavatyāḥ samprayoge raty-utpattiḥ pratīyata iti |

And it is interpreted by him [Bhoja] thus: "Here, from the gentle use of words denoting scolding, release, and restraint, the arising of love in union on the part of an offended woman is recognized."