The Lotus Sūtra 5.6

5.6

「文殊師利！又菩薩摩訶薩不應於女人身，取能生欲想相而為說法，亦不樂見。若入他家，不與小女、處女、寡女等共語。亦復不近五種不男之人以為親厚，不獨入他家，若有因緣須獨入時，但一心念佛。若為女人說法，不露齒笑，不現胸臆，乃至為法猶不親厚，況復餘事。不樂畜年少弟子、沙彌、小兒，亦不樂與同師。常好坐禪，在於閑處，修攝其心。文殊師利！是名初親近處。」

sattva should avoid their company in chambers, on roads, or while in lecture

halls, and not remain with them. If they come, teach them the Dharma according to their capacities, but expect nothing!

“Moreover, O Mañjuśrī! The bodhisattva mahāsattva should expound the teaching without any thought of desire for, or wish to see, a woman’s body.

“If a bodhisattva enters someone else’s home he should not talk to young girls, maidens, and widows. A bodhisattva should also not approach the five kinds of impotent men nor be intimate with them. He should not enter someone else’s home alone; and if for any reason he should enter it alone a bodhisattva should do nothing but singlemindedly contemplate the Buddha.

“If he should teach the Dharma to women he should not show his teeth when smiling nor reveal his chest. A bodhisattva should not be intimate with them even for the sake of the Dharma. How much less for other things!

“A bodhisattva should take no pleasure in keeping young disciples, śrāmaṇeras, or young boys. Nor should he take pleasure in having the same teacher as them. He should always take pleasure in meditation and, in a quiet place, practice to control his mind. O Mañjuśrī! This is what is known as the first sphere of relationships.

“Furthermore, the bodhisattva mahāsattvas perceive the emptiness of all dharmas in their true aspect. All things are unerring, unmoving, nonreturning, irreversible, and like empty space which lacks substance. They are beyond all language. They are not produced, nor do they emerge, nor do they arise. They do not have any name or mark, and in reality they have no substance. They are immeasurable, limitless, without obstacles or obstructions. They exist only through dependent origination, arising through error. That is why I teach the permanent joy of perceiving the aspects of all existent things in this way. This is what is known as the second sphere of relationships of a bodhisattva mahāsattva.”

At that time the Bhagavat, wanting to elaborate upon the meaning of this further, spoke these verses:

If, in the troubled world to come,

A bodhisattva with a fearless mind

Wants to teach this sutra,

He should enter the sphere

Of the bodhisattva practice

And the sphere of relationships.

He should always stay away from kings, Princes, ministers, chief officials, Dangerous pranksters, outcastes, Heretics, and brahmans. He should not consort With excessively proud scholars, Who are attached to scriptures of the inferior vehicle Contained in the three baskets (Tripiṭaka); Nor with monks who violate the precepts, With those who call themselves arhats, Nor with nuns who like to joke and laugh. He should not become acquainted with laywomen Who are attached to the desires of the five senses, And seek nirvana in their present lives. If these people come to the bodhisattva With good intentions In order to hear about the buddha path, The bodhisattva should then fearlessly Teach them the Dharma Without any expectations.