大比丘三千威儀 2.19

2.19

If one wishes to travel far and entrust one's śrāmaṇera to another person, there are five matters: First, ask the śrāmaṇera beforehand, 'Is so-and-so agreeable to you?' Second, 'Can you serve the host in a pleasing manner?' Third, 'If he reprimands and scolds you, you must not say, "He is not my ācārya, so scolding me is wrong."' Fourth, 'Serve the host just as you regard me.' Fifth, 'When he instructs you according to the Dharma, you must not abandon him and leave.'