大般涅槃經義記 5.81

5.81

第三生死俱厭喻中，「若有如是好惡事者」雙牒生死，生好死惡；「我俱不用」生死俱厭；「各隨意去」生死俱遣；「是時二女俱共相將還其所止」生死俱離，捨聖之凡名還所止。

In the third parable of loathing both birth and death, "If there are such good and bad matters" takes up both birth and death together, birth being good and death being bad; "I have use for neither" is loathing both birth and death; "Each go as you please" is dispatching both birth and death; "At that time the two women together led each other back to their dwelling place" is departing from both birth and death; renouncing the noble and going to the ordinary is called returning to their dwelling place.