維摩經略疏垂裕記 7.203

7.203

五、嫌怪不受。「而要我」者，於遙反，案要，猶強也。亦要，難也。《廣雅》云「要，遮也。」

Fifth, finding it objectionable and refusing to accept. Regarding "and force me": *yao* has the fanqie *yū-yáo*; checking the character, it is like forcing. It also means difficult. The *Guangya* states: "*Yao* means obstructing."