折疑論 2.121

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論語以三事無違為孝之先（孟懿子問孝。子曰。無違。孟懿子魯大夫。問孝於夫子。子曰無違。謂不背於理也。樊遲夫子弟子。御其車。夫子恐懿子未達。故謂樊遲以發之。樊遲曰何謂也。子曰。生事之以禮。死葬之以禮。祭之以禮。故生事葬祀乃事親始終具矣。是以為孝之先也）。

The Analects takes not disobeying in three matters as the foremost aspect of filial piety (Meng Yizi asked about filial piety; the Master said: 'Never disobey.' Meng Yizi was a grandee of Lu who asked the Master about filial piety; the Master said, 'Never disobey,' meaning not to go against principle. Fan Chi, the Master's disciple, was driving his chariot; the Master, fearing Yizi had not understood, spoke to Fan Chi to elucidate it. Fan Chi asked, 'What does that mean?' The Master said: 'Serve them with propriety while alive; bury them with propriety when dead; sacrifice to them with propriety.' Thus serving them in life, burying them, and sacrificing to them completely encompass serving one’s parents from beginning to end; therefore it is the foremost aspect of filial piety).