法苑珠林 20.42

20.42

西向拜者謂婦事夫。當有五事。一者夫從外來當起迎之。二者夫出不在當炊蒸掃除待之。三者不得有婬心於外。夫罵詈之不得還罵作色。四者當用夫教誡。所有什物不得藏匿。五者夫若寢息蓋藏乃臥。夫視其婦亦有五事。一者出入當敬於婦。二者衣食以時與之。三者當給與金銀珠璣。四者家中所有多少悉用付之。五者不得於外耽畜侍御。

"Worshipping toward the west means that there are five duties in a wife serving her husband. First, when her husband arrives from outside, she must rise to welcome him. Second, when her husband goes out and is away, she must cook, sweep, and await him. Third, she must not have lustful thoughts toward outsiders; if her husband scolds her, she must not scold back or make an angry face. Fourth, she must follow her husband's admonitions; she must not conceal any household utensils. Fifth, when her husband retires to sleep, she covers him up and only then lies down. A husband caring for his wife also has five duties. First, when entering and leaving, he must respect his wife. Second, he must provide her with food and clothing in a timely manner. Third, he must give her gold, silver, pearls, and jewels. Fourth, he must entrust her with whatever is in the household, whether much or little. Fifth, he must not indulge in keeping maidservants outside."