釋氏要覽 3.184

3.184

瑜伽論云。終不嗤笑。輕弄於他。令他𢠱愧不安穩住。終不現前。毀他所愛。讚他非愛。非情交者。不吐實誠。不屢希望。知量而受。若先許應他飲食等終無假托不赴先期○龍王經云。有三事。常在安隱。謂不剛硬。不諛不諂。除貪嫉。見人得供養。代其歡喜。

The Yogācārabhūmi-śāstra states: 'Never sneer at or mock others to make them ashamed and dwell in disquiet. Never, in their presence, disparage what they love or praise what they dislike. To those who are not close friends, do not pour out one's heart. Do not frequently harbor expectations, and receive things knowing moderation. If one has previously agreed to accept an offer of food or drink from another, never make excuses to avoid fulfilling the prior appointment.' The Nāgarāja-sūtra states: 'There are three things by which one constantly dwells in peace and security: namely, not being stiff and unyielding, not being flattering or fawning, and eliminating greed and jealousy. When seeing others receive offerings, rejoice on their behalf.'