Storia do Mogor 265.15.3

265.15.3

Some bridegrooms, warned of the tricks played by women in India, refuse to drink. The reader should be aware that the dislike of the bridegroom to drinking the water is that in the syrup above referred to there is mixed a liquid, in virtue of which the bridegroom becomes frantically enamoured of her (the bride). The matrons, on seeing the difficulties made by the bridegroom, force him by such strong arguments and oaths that he believes and drinks. The singing women once more resume their song, saying, ' May it profit you.' The whole night is passed in this mirth, and before daybreak the bridegroom takes the woman to his house, carrying the dowry along with him, making the pretext for withdrawal of needing repose. Among the Mahomedans it is the practice not to see their bride beforehand, but to marry upon reports, interests, or respect. First cousins are allowed to marry. Poor people conduct their marriages in the same way, to the extent of each man's resources. The Hindus also give a similar feast, but it is accompanied by other ceremonies and sacrifices. Among these latter when the husband dies they shave the widow's head, and she never marries again. This can be seen in more detail in my remarks upon the Hindu religion (III. 122-132).