Baudhayanaprayogamala 47.64-9

47.64-9

atha caturthomadhye śrāddhe darśe ca prāpte jyotirnibandhe 'vivāhamārabhya caturthimadhye śrāddhaṃ dinaṃ darśadinaṃ
yadi syāt || vaidhavyamāpnoti tadāśu kanyā jīvetpatiścedanapatyatā ca || vivāhamadhye yadi cet kṣayāhastatra svamukhyāḥ pitaro nayanti
vrate vivāhe paratastu kuryācchrāddhaṃ svadhābhirna tu dūṣayettam' || taṃ vivāhaṃ na tyajet, kintu kuryādevetyarthaḥ || 'ye vā bhadraṃ dūṣayanti
svadhābhiḥ' iti śruteśca || āśvalāyanadharme 'alābhe sumuhūrtasya vighnaṃ yaḥ kurute yadi || svadhayā tu vivāhasya na sa paśyecchubhaṃ kvacit
vighnamācarate yastu yajñasyodvāhakasya ca || yātrāyāścaiva dharmasya sa yāti narakaṃ dhruvam' || etadāpadviṣayam || ata eva prayogadarpaṇe
kṣayāhe prāpte vṛddhiśrāddhaniṣedhaḥ kṛtaḥ ‘pitroḥ pratyābdikai caiva nāndīśrāddhaṃ na kārayet || yadi mohādvijaḥ kuryānmāṅgalyamaśubhaṃ bhavet’
punaśca tatraiva ‘nāndīśrāddhe kṛte yāvaddevakotthāpanaṃ bhavet || brahmayajñaṃ ca vai śrāddhaṃ vedānuṣṭhānameva ca || śavekṣaṇaṃ svadhākāraṃ śmaśrukeśanikuntanam
sīmātikramaṇaṃ caiva śrāddhabhojanameva ca || na kuryācchubhakartā ca sapiṇḍā api caiva hi || yastu vai kurute mohādaśubhaṃ sa ca vai labhet’
punastatraiva nāndī śrāddhe kṛte ityupakramya ‘apasavyaṃ svadhāśrāddhaṃ nadīsnānaṃ śavekṣaṇam || varjayettarpaṇaṃ caiva devakotthāpanāvadhi || vivāhe copa开放ne
kṛte caule sutasya ca || tyajetpiṇḍāṃstilānūcchrāddhe narakaṃ cāndamadhyataḥ’ || nāndyantare niṣiddhānyāha gārgyaḥ ‘nāndīśrāddhe kṛte paścādyāvan
mātṛvisarjanam || darśaśrāddhaṃ kṣayaśrāddhaṃ snānaṃ śītodakena ca || apasavyaṃ svadhākāraṃ nityaśrāddhaṃ tathaiva ca || brahmayajñaṃ cādhyayanaṃ nadīsīmātilaṅghanam || upavāsaṃ vrataṃ caiva śrāddhabhojanameva ca || naiva kuryātsapiṇḍāśca maṇḍapodvāsanāvadhi’ || jyotiṣe ‘snānaṃ sacailaṃ tilamiśrakarma
pretānuyānaṃ balavatpradānam || apūrvatīrthāmaradarśanaṃ ca visarjayenmaṅgalato'bdamekam || māsaṣaṭkaṃ vivāhādau vrataprārambhaṇaṃ na ca || jīrṇabhāṇḍādi
na tyājyaṃ gṛhasammārjanaṃ tathā || ūrdhvaṃ vivāhātputrasya tathaiva vratabandhanāt || ātmano muṇḍanaṃ naiva varṣaṃ varṣārdhameva ca’ || hemādrau
‘vivāhavratacūḍāsu varṣamardhaṃ tadardhakam || piṇḍadānaṃ mṛdāsnānaṃ na kuryāttilatarpaṇam || tīrthe saṃvatsare prete pitṛyajñe mahālaye || kṛtodvāho'pi kurvīta piṇḍanirvopaṇaṃ sadā || mātāpitromṛtāhe ca gayāśrāddhe mahālaye || dadyātpiṇḍānkṛtodvāhaḥ śrāddheṣvanyeṣu varjayet’
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