Jatukarnya 1.7: Smṛticandrikā · Nirṇayasindhu

1.7

pātrāṇy uccālayec chrāddhe svayaṃ śiṣyo 'thavā sutaḥ | na strībhir na ca bālena nāsajātyā kathaṃcana

In a śrāddha, oneself, a disciple, or a son should remove the vessels; / never by women, nor by a child, nor under any circumstances by one not of the same caste.

At a śrāddha the vessels are to be removed by (the performer) himself, a pupil or a son; never by women, a child or one of another class.