Ujjvalanilamani 5.39

5.39

atha dhīrādhīra-madhyā-
dhīrādhīra tu vakroktyā sa-bāṣpaṃ vadati priyam //

Now, the dhīrādhīrā-madhyā:
The [madhyā] both self-controlled and lacking self-control speaks to her lover with ironic innuendo while shedding tears.