佛說目連問戒律中五百輕重事經 2.31

2.31

問：「父母兄弟破壞，得乞物贖不？」答：「得。但不得稱己須乞，父母兄弟得。若用訖有長，不得自入，還屬所贖者。若語聽用，犯墮。不聽用而用，犯棄。」

Question: "If one's parents or brothers are ruined, may one beg for property to ransom them?"
Answer: "One may. However, one must not beg stating that it is for one's own needs; doing so on behalf of parents or brothers is permissible. Once the use is completed, if there is a surplus, one must not keep it for oneself; it returns to the possession of the ransomed party. If they tell him he is allowed to use it, [using it] is a pāyattika offense; if used without permission, it is a pārājika offense."