Storia do Mogor 257.7

257.7

On the day that the girl arrives at puberty the father announces the fact to all his relations and friends, and calls upon them to rejoice with him. The first to be informed is the son-in-law, to whom notice is given, as to all the other relations, by writing letters on palm-leaves dyed with saffron, a sign instituted by these people for these great solemnities. After the twelve days have elapsed the woman goes to her father-in-law's, where are assembled all the relations, and almost the same ceremonies are performed as at the wedding, sacrifices and adoration of fire being offered anew. A second feast is given, and this day is called the day of second marriage, of the wedding feast of puberty. It is after this second celebration that the woman is given over to her husband, and not before. After she has been made over to her husband, and he has taken her home, she may not speak to him before anyone. Nor may she do so to her mother-in-law or her sisters-in-law, or any other of the male or female relations of her husband. Furthermore, she is compelled to do the lowliest duties of the household, such as going to fetch water and so forth. If she wants anything she has to ask for it by signs, which seems very ridiculous.