Kamasutra 5.3.15

5.3.15

ciram adṛṣṭāpi prakṛtisthaiva saṃsṛjyate kṛtalakṣaṇāṃ tāṃ darśitākārām upakramet//

If she happens to go to sleep in his vicinity he should put his left arm around her, and see when she awakens whether she repulses him in reality, or only repulses him in such a way as if she was desirous of the same thing being done to her again. And what is done by the arm can also be done by the foot. If the man succeeds in this point he should embrace her more closely, and if she will not stand the embrace and gets up, but behaves with him as usual the next day, he should consider then that she is not unwilling to be enjoyed by him. If, however, she does not appear again, the man should try to get over her by means of a go-between; and if, after having disappeared for some time she again appears, and behaves with him as usual, the man should then consider that she would not object to be united with him.

When a woman gives a man an opportunity, and makes her own love manifest to him, he should proceed to enjoy her. And the signs of a woman manifesting her love are these: